My daughter was exposed to pornography for the first time at 10yo. Sadly, she is the ‘norm’ NOT the exception in these statistics.
Embarrassingly, I was a child abuse detective with over 8-years experience in the Child Sexual Abuse space at the time it happened.
I had already had the 'sex' talk an...
Whether you believe in this very interesting tradition or not... it is very likely your children may be wanting to go 'trick or treating' tonight.
As a child of the 80's, we didn't have this tradition and as an ex-police officer and child abuse detective, it sets off all sorts of alarm bells in my ...



TRIGGER WARNING - THIS BLOG POST CONTAINS THE DISCUSSION OF CHILD ABUSE MATERIAL!
I had a young person contact me yesterday asking for HELP.
The young person had been shared a link to a website in which they were pressured to open and look at on insistence from 'friends'.
The website contained...
After my Sunrise interview this morning which just touched on some of the basics of child safety, I wanted to share with parents, more in-depth advice on how to help keep your kids safe but NOT scared when talking about things like Stranger Danger.
In my experience, compared to reported child sexual...
I don't think parents and caregivers understand just how vitally important and necessary, consent education is for our children and teenagers and that unless you have been taught consent, it's not something everyone intrinsically understands or respects properly.
In my experience, many sexual assa...
A lot of parents haven't considered the potential implications that a phone or device can have on your child's safety and development before they are gifted or given one.
Not because they don't care about those issues but more so because the things that may or may not effect a child's safety are n...
Whilst interviewing children about their child sexual abuse, I noticed recurring patterns and behaviours being shared by the children I was talking to both in regards to in-person abuse and online exploitation. They would describe how their abusers would similarly groom them, keep them complicit and...
Kids talking to strangers online is a seriously scary thought for some parents and not much of a consideration for others.
As a parent, we often don't understand or realise the risks in a child or teens need to engage and communicate with someone not known to them in real life. Even with educatio...
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When it comes to your child's online activities, it is highly recommended by both police, world wide law enforcement agencies, child protection agencies and online safety profession...