The Question No One Wants to Ask (But Every Parent Should)
Most parents assume the people they love are safe for their children. That family and friends means protection. That love equals trust. I wish that were always true.
But my years as a child abuse detective taught me something I could never...
How to talk to your kids if you are worried something might have happenedÂ
(aka: The conversation you pray youâll never need - but must know how to have)
Itâs every parentâs worst fear!
The panic that comes with wondering if your child mightâve been hurt. Maybe there was a shift in their behaviour....
Before I became a police officer, I didnât know much about child sexual abuse. It just wasnât something people talked about when I was a child growing up or as I became a parent myself.
I joined the WA Police before my daughter had turned 2-years-old and she grew up with me in the blue uniform, hel...
Itâs the scenario no one ever wants to imagineâbut far too many live through.
You start to notice something off in your child - behaviours that donât make sense, disclosures that chill you to the bone, a gut instinct that wonât leave you alone. Then it hits you like a freight train: the person harm...
Itâs the moment every parent dreads. Your child comes to you - or worse, you discoverâthat theyâve seen something explicit online. Maybe it was pornographic content, a violent video, or something just deeply inappropriate for their age. Your stomach drops. Your heart races. And suddenly, youâre stan...
Our kids will test us with the little things before theyâll trust us with the big things!
As a former child abuse detective, Iâve seen firsthand how crucial it is for kids to feel safe and supported by their parents, especially when it comes to difficult or dangerous situations. But hereâs a truth...
Not all child sexual abuse physically hurts the child⌠and not all children realise they are being abused!
Before you skip reading or get âickedâ out by this topic, I need you to realise WHY knowing this information is so vitally important in helping our kids stay safe and reducing overall harm.
...I remember when I was returning to work after my daughter was born and the emotional roller coaster I went through in finding an early childhood centre. I had so much mum-guilt in needing to put her into childcare that I cried for days.
At that stage, I was not even a police officer, I was just nee...
Parent Question: I am thinking of enrolling my son in an organised group activity, but I am worried about the safety aspects for him whilst being around adults we donât know personally. Is there any way we can make it safer so he can still enjoy being involved in group activities?
Sports and organi...